Endless Goals

Can we see some shades of light at the end of this dark tunnel? Some of us may seen it while for some others the darkest moment is still yet to come. But we all know that the end of this bad time is going to end soon. Never mind of all the talk in town that the recession is still has a long way to recover and we must be ready for it. It is best that if we less worry and work our way to get out of the situation. First we must get out using our capability and power to push forward.

By now we may already know the cruel things a recession could do. Millions of people are losing jobs and their homes while others are turning to suicide as an alternative to end their agony. That is the impact of capitalism. Of all the wealth we gathered in years of hard work and in a blink of an eye it dissappeared in thin air. Many people have to start for zero again and a later stage of life and lost all their dreams.

Author: Bob Urichuck

If you haven’t heard from a guy after a great date you may be wondering, should I call him? Perhaps he’s lost my number and is not calling me because he doesn’t know how to get a hold of me. And this would obviously be a legitimate reason for calling him, right?

We all like things to be automatic, we drive automatic cars and things are now run automatic. In life too our life are in auto pilot. Our routines are just the same everyday as our mind are program to be in that nature. Sometimes it seems that yesterday moment are just like today or maybe tomorrow. Maybe it is a waste if we know what tomorrow going to be. There will be no moment that we are looking forward to as things are going to be pretty much the same.

Unfortunately that is the situation for most people, running life automatically and to safely. Are we human beings getting more lazy these days or there is nothing else that we should looking into. Since when was the last time we try to do something different or take some risk in life anticipating an outcome that can be more a lot better. Maybe there is none, none at all.

How many times we have told ourselves that we need changes in life, venture into something new, tap into various opportunities but in the end we found ourselves still remaining in the same situation as we were last year or years ago.

To change need courage because often we do not know what is there waiting for us at the other end of the road of change we choose. We become very unsure and chose to remain in our comfort zone for the rest of our lives. We never know ii if we never take the first step to change we will never know what is out there for us.

We need to remind ourselves of the pain we are enduring all this time in our so called comfort zone if we do not adapt to changes. If we are able to associate pain to our current situation we will find it is much easier to change ourselves.

But still many people failed halfway during the process and go back to their original form in their comfort zone. Often things will not be easy. To do something totally different will not be easy for many people. Our lives can said to be in auto pilot, we wake up, go to work, do the routine, have lunch, back home and go to bed. Almost all of us will have these normal routine cycles of life everyday just as in auto pilot. We can almost do it without even thinking for too long, we are even able to wake up at the same time every morning without the need of an alarm clock.

All these has been program inside our sub conscious mind and very often we reluctant to let go this easy comfort zone even though we know we are far from happy in the situation where we are now.

So why is it hard for us to take action and change. The answer is very simple. The fear of the uncertainty of the other side is far much greater than the pain in the current situation. So we will stay with the current condition as we already know what is in it and there could be no major harm that we cannot endure as we already survived it to this point.

We need to find a way to break through. We need to raise our awareness and to identify what are the actions we need in order for us to make change. We need to make ourselves strongly believe that we can achieve better things in life if we adopt changes and to know that we no longer need our old comfort zone. We need to find some kind of little proof that there is something better waiting for us, that the opportunities are far much bigger and better if we decided to explore more into it. We have the whole universe to explore and it is for use to decide just how much or how big we want from it.

Change happening everywhere and every moment now, we may realize or may not realize it. During the daily course of our life we learned how to live with those changes, like the way we work or how we come to work. There we no such thing as computers or internet 30-40 years ago and the cars we drive now much better and faster than they were 20 years back. All these are changes that blended well into our belief system and we do not resist to their existence.

Mentors are important to guide us in order for us to change and find success. Read their story and experience. They are the best road map and example for us to follow and from their experiences at least we are able to convince our self belief that we can do just the same.

Sometimes we just wonder why are human born to be different. Some are born to be great man and some are not. Maybe it is just how God created us or the way it should be that only a few are meant to be great. Those few are those who used the most of what they are gifted for. Their time, the ability and adapt to changes when they feel need to. Very often their successes are the results of the changes they bring to the world. We will be surprise of their humble beginning of their story and how they make it.

Even they need change to. Life is not about the successful of your business and the amount of money we make. Make more money does not mean making more happiness. We may end up not knowing what we really want in life if we put a lot of our focus in making money alone. Successes are measured in many ways. Of course many of us will use the amount of money we make as a barometer to measure success. Many rich people feel that they still have something to do in this world. It has no end to the list. In fact no lifetime will be enough to fulfill those lists. 

Think of all the possible things that we can do if we decide to take that action, at any stage of life we decided to cross the line at the time when we need to choose which path to go. There will be no questions of what if. What if I have given it a try last time. These questions can be painful sometimes when we learned that we are no longer a part of the history. It’s the history of being part of the community of great and successful people. 

Our Birth is our Opening Balance! 
Our Death is our Closing Balance! 
Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities 
Our Creative Ideas are our Assets 

Heart is our Current Asset 
Soul is our Fixed Asset 
Brain is our Fixed Deposit 
Thinking is our Current Account 

Achievements are our Capital 
Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade 
Friends are our General Reserves 
Values & Behaviour are our Goodwill 
Patience is our Interest Earned 
Love is our Dividend 
Children are our Bonus Issues 
Education is Brands / Patents 

Knowledge is our Investment 
Experience is our Premium Account 
The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately. 
The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award. 

Some very Good and Very bad things ….
The most destructive habit……. ……… ……..Worry 
The greatest Joy……… ……… ……… ……Giving 
The greatest loss…….Loss of self-respect 

The most satisfying work…….. …….Helping others 
The ugliest personality trait……. …….Selfishness 
The most endangered species….. ….Dedicated leaders 
Our greatest natural resource…. ……… …Our youth 

The greatest ‘shot in the arm’…….. …Encouragement 
The greatest problem to overcome…. ……… …..Fear 
The most effective sleeping pill……. Peace of mind 
The most crippling failure disease….. ………Excuses 

The most powerful force in life…….. ………. ..Love 
The most dangerous act…… ..A gossip
The world’s most incredible computer…. ….The brain 
The worst thing to be without….. ……… ….. Hope 

The deadliest weapon…… ……… ……..The tongue 
The two most power-filled words……. ……… ‘I Can’ 
The greatest asset……. ………. ……… ……Faith 
The most worthless emotion…. …………….. ….Self- pity 

The most beautiful attire…… …………….. ……….SMILE! 
The most prized possession.. ……… ……Integrity 
The most powerful channel of communication. …..Prayer 
The most contagious spirit…… …………….. ……Enthusiasm 

Life ends; when you stop Dreaming, 
Hope ends; when you stop Believing, 
Love ends; when you stop Caring, 
And Friendship ends; when you stop Sharing…!!! 
 

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1.     Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.

2.     Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.

3.     Sleep for 7 hours.

4.      Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.

5.      Play more games.

6.     Read more books than you did in 2007.

7.     Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer. They provide us with daily fuel for our busy lives.

8.     Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.

9.     Dream more while you are awake.

10.  Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.

11.  Drink plenty of water.

12.  Try to make at least three people smile each day.

13.  Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.

14.  Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.

15.  Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.

16.  Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.

17.  Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.

18.  Smile and laugh more.

19.  Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.

20.  Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

21.  You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

22.  Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.

23.  Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don’t compare your partner with others.

24.  No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

25.  Forgive everyone for everything.

26.  What other people think of you is none of your business.

27.  However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

28.  Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

29.  Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.

30.  Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

31.  The best is yet to come.

32.  No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

33.  Do the right thing!

34.  Call your family often.

35.  Your inner most is always happy. So be happy.

36.  Each day give something good to others.

37.  Don’t over do. Keep your limits.

Not many people like the idea of doing the impossible. Why would somebody be crazy enough to even trying something that is impossible. But to those who have tried they know that doing something that is impossible will bring more meaning in life where you can achieve something while others not. it is those who are brave enough and those who have great patient and persistency are able to achieve this. 

In today’s business world we need to set up goals and targets to the level that o one can even think to achieve. Then we will know our potential and our ability to do things. Most people will take the safe way, set an achievable target and goals and they never know to what limit they can achieve in life. We human are known not to fully utilize all the gifts that were given to us. We even use less than 1% of our brain our entire life. If we just push a little more harder and try those things that we think they are impossible, we will be surprise of what kind of things we can achieve in life. 

Life is too short and we need to make things happen in life and live it with good values.